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The Bridesmaid's Duties

Wedding SpeechesThe tradition of Bridesmaids dates back to pagan times, when it was thought that evil spirits would attend wedding ceremonies to bestow bad luck upon the happy couple.
The idea was that by surrounding the Bride with lookalikes would confuse the evil spirits and they would leave without casting a curse.

Nowadays, the role of a bridesmaid is more of an assistant, than a decoy. Your role in the planning and on the day is to help make sure that the event runs perfectly. You should report to the Maid of Honour, or Chief Bridesmaid.

The chief bridesmaid is usually a sister or close friend of the bride. However, if she is already married herself or if the bride is a widow and is re-marrying, her title becomes Matron of Honour. She will liaise closely with the bride during all the wedding preparations and help look after the other bridesmaids, flower girl and page boys.

6 months ...
Discuss the plans with the bride, groom and best man
Discuss the dress or outfit with the bride, especially if being made. Ascertain who will pay for the outfit.

4 months ...
Help the bride to choose her dress and the bridesmaids dresses.

1 week ...
Attend the wedding rehearsal if required.

the day before ...
Collect any hired clothing and accessories.

on the day ...
Ensure bouquets are ready for the bride, bridesmaids and flower girl.
Help the bride with her hair, make-up and dress.
Help the other bridesmaids, flower girl and page boys get dressed and give them any final instructions on their duties.
Leave for the ceremony 10 minutes before the bride.


Arrange the bride's dress and veil.
Follow behind the bride and her father up the aisle.
Hold the bride's bouquet during the ceremony.
Witness the signing of the register if required.
Leave the church accompanied by the best man after the bride and groom.
Depart for the reception with any other bridesmaids and best man after the bride and groom.


Stand in the receiving line and greet the guests.
Help to display and record gifts received.
Distribute slices of the wedding cake to the guests.
Have the first dance with the best man.
Help the bride change into her going away outfit.
Take care of her dress and accessories if required.

after the wedding ...
Return any hired clothing and accessories.

 

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